Ok, my wife has admitted to having a one time affair after I caught her 6 years ago. I feel there was more sex on the side then I’ll ever know. We seemed to have moved past it. Now it seems things that brought my attention to her past infidelity are starting to resurface again. She easily irritated, she is angry toward me for no reason, she has no patience at all, and she seems to bash me with no justifyable reason. After 22 years of marriage I see how much she’s changed and how I’m starting to really dislike her because of so much negativity on her part. I also feel she’s not sorry for her affairs and would more then likely have sex with others if she wanted to and knew she could get away with it, and with her working the midnight shift, anything can happen. I feel I have done everthing possible to improve our marriage, I did all I could and more then I should have when I see her do very little. Is this a sign of new infidelity, a midlife crisis or menopause?
First of all, I have no medical insurance and cannot afford to go to a doctor…I am a 25yr old female that is very stressed-work full time and getting my MS full time. Three days ago I felt nauseus and was pale, two days ago I could barely speak and had a slight sore throat, yesterday I felt better but then my sore throat got worse. Today, I looked in the mirror and noticed large white spots on one side (to the right of my uvula) at the back of my throat. What should I do to treat this, my throat really hurts!!
the dr. said i could use the provera for my heavy bleeding and and multiple periods a month and horrible pain and also cysts or the mirena iud. i have used the depo provera before a few yrs ago and it made me whacky and gave me horrible periods for months straight with no break.i was a pharmacy tech for 5 yrs and i argued with this dr and i told him it is the same thing just a pill form i can’t take it. he said it isn’t depo,i felt like calling him an idiot.medroxyprogesterone is what it is no matter what fom. i don’t know what to do. i just got off the phone with my insurance and they said we haven’t got back the approval yet it hasn’t gone thru clinical yet.i know they are gonna deny because of that.i don’t want a bandaide for a problem either in reference to the mirena iud plus i heard of such of a high failure rate.i have researched these 2 things the failure rate is is greater than the benefits.plus its only a bandaide fix.i don’t want to do this till menopause when i could have a permanant fix. i talked to my insurance about it and they said more than likely they will go with the least invasive i told them that i can’t take the provera and for my own beliefs i won’t do the mirena iud and it is just a bandaide it has a high failure to it.i wasn’t talking to the clinical nurse just to someone else with my insurance.i called to talk to my pcm’s nurse about getting a 2nd opinion and she said they are gonna work on it.she said lets she what comes thru on tricare.i also put a call in thru my gyn i want to try to get it thru his thick head about this but i don’t think i can.my pcm’s nurse also said maybe we can get my pcm to talk to him about it too.i can’t get my medical records that show where i took the depo cause the air force base where i was at lost my medical records so i am screwed on that part.i just don’t know what to do right now.i am so frustrated.
well i am 32 and i had a tubal ligation and it has been a living nightmare since i had the tubal ligation.the miltary insurance tricare is a horrible insurance.because i get horrible migraines with aura’s i don’t really have options even the mirena iud said u can get headaches and ovarian cysts those things are dangerous too and i know the failure rate is high anyways.i can’t take the provera because the depo provera make me whacky and it is the same and it also gave me a constant period for months on end.it is called medroxyprogestrone and this idiot dr argued with me about it even though i was a pharmacy tech.i am working on getting a 2nd opinion.my hysterectomy is scheduled for 28 july though so i am really worried about all this junk i just want this over with.
ablation failed and i do have children too.
oh by the way anyone live in central texas that can recommend a new gyn around austin,waco,killee,temple area? maybe that might help.
i am quoting this person i already had this done and it didn’t work had D&C. i am taking out my right damaged ovary and just my uterus and nothing else.I CAN NOT TAKE BIRTH CONTROL PILLS UNLESS I WANT TO HAVE A STROKE. i am not being rude i just want to stress that my options are not there.i am medically knowledgable.i know better especially when it comes to medicine.
(you are too young for a hysterectomy, i wouldnt do it, are you at least keeping your ovaries? my god you will be in menopause at 32. they can do some sort of ,,its called ablasion (splg?) they can cauterize the lining of your uterus and essentially it kills it, yet it is still there. birth control pills would suppress the cysts. i am not in your shoes, maybe you are suffering so bad you just want it all out, but dont do something you regret, look into a d&c or the ablasion, get a second, third, fourth opinion! this is your body, find someone who cares about you.)
when you or your wife hits menopause…does that mean you stop having sex?
Levitica: I was merely asking a question based on an answer BY A CHRISTIAN in regards to sex….does that bother you somehow? its not my fault you guys cant get your stories straight!
My daughter gets mini-panic attacks/anxiety attacks from stress, and a friend of the family recommended we get her a small animal to relieve stress. She chose to get a rat, and she takes it with her in public. Some places frown upon and/or prohibit this, but I understand that you can get some kind of documentation from a doctor allowing the animal in public places. How do we go about obtaining this? She’s 18, by the way, if that makes a difference.
Men only please. Your thoughts, experience(s) about relating with women who are in pre-menopause (peri-menopause) ?
What did (or do) you find to be the most confusing or challanging of relating with a woman going through this experience.
Frustration, confusion, compassion ? How long of time was this experienced and / or felt ?
Serioius replies only please.
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Men only please. Your thoughts, experience(s) about relating with women who are in pre-menopause (peri-menopause) ?
What did (or do) you find to be the most confusing or challanging of relating with a woman going through this experience.
Frustration, confusion, compassion ? How long of time was this experienced and / or felt ?
Serioius replies only please.
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I am in my 40s and went through a really early menopause at 41, I don’t know why. I just feel depressed about my age and my position in life. I have been married and divorced 4 times starting in my teens and I have no children. I would appreciate really honest or thoughtful answers.
I am not fat and the last thing I need is a boob job. Don’t assume.